April 27 to 28, I was out of town for a Summer Camp with our charges. Our alaga’s. 9 of them, some are even taller than I am. With American nicknames, but Pinoy looks and values. Sabi ng iba, patayuin mo lang sa tabi, baka me magtanong sa kanila in English. Pero kawawa, baka matameme lang sila at di makasagot…poor kids…
We were on the road at 630 AM, on the way to Los Baños, Laguna. Sounds a swimming gimmick? I just so wished, but it wasn’t. We’re on the way to “somewhat” transform our kids – age range from 13 to 20 years old - to be more confident, more loved and loving, and more independent as they can be. 2 days were actually not enough, but we wisely spent every minute of it.
“Thriving and Surviving Adolescence” was the program’s theme. Aha, I wished I could turn back time. But well, I’m still adolescent by heart. 16, 17, 18…feeling ko actually, my age stopped at 23. Either it’s a good or bad thing, I still don’t know. J
We hired professionals to facilitate the flow of the program – Who Am I?, Affirming Self-Worth, and Communication Styles, Yes/No and some interesting topics. I couldn’t delve the details of the discussion since we were under oath of non-disclosure. All I can say is, I’m proud of my alaga’s. Mana sa akin – merong mga ma-showbiz, some are very articulate, and more mature than their age. They freely shared their feelings and emotions to us, and have freely expressed what’s on their minds.
4 of them (plus Agnes) stayed at the house over the weekend. Friday night was spent on movie marathons, gorging on junk food, drinking Coke, going through our books, (ha, there are a couple for their reading pleasure, i.e. Harry Potter, Bob Ong books, etc) and scouring our limited CD collection. Much to the bagets’ delight, they saw Bamboo, Mojofly, Brownman Revival CD’s. Sorry though, no Hale or Cueshe CD’s in our collection.
Boy, I miss my kids already. Can’t wait to see them at the end of this month for our scholarship orientation. And hopefully, I won’t be the “strict” Ma’am they came to know, but a more relaxed and caring Stage Mother for all of them.
`STF
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